So, You’re Attracted to People Who Make You Sad?
I have been in more than one relationship I absolutely knew was shitty for me. I knew because everyone in my life would shame me for staying, and so would I. Why couldn’t I walk away? Why were these dynamics occupying so much of my mental capacity? Why did stability feel so fucking boring? The […]
Oops, Too Soon: A Guide to Ejaculation Control
Here’s the thing about orgasms. From an evolutionary perspective, they are kinda the point. So if they happen sooner than you’d like them to, you’re really just being efficient – from the perspective of evolution. There is likely nothing physically wrong with you. Culturally – we’ve taken a cue from evolution in centering the occurrence […]